Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Ode to Mardi Gras...

I decided to make a special post just about my adventure making a King Cake for Mardi Gras.  This is the one "big" holiday that I was scheduled to miss while over here, and I made the most of it.  It would not have been "Mardi Gras" without a King Cake, so I bought every ingredient on the recipe (yes, EVERYTHING since I had nothing to start with), and this is what ensued:

All of my supplies...
Receipts from the Commissary and NEX
Recipe from my favorite downstairs roommate!
Watching the West Wing
Flour!
Using a pot to mix because I did not have a big bowl, lol!
Rolling out the dough with can of icing, lol!
My mess, haha!
Colored Sugar...A MUST!
Doesn't it look yummy?!?!?
I'm hungry just looking at this...
Proof I cleaned up
(notice the sink is NOT included in the photo)
So, it was underdone the first time around
(due to issues with trying to get the dough thin enough)
and after putting it back it I ended up with lots
of melted sugar, lol!  But it was great afterwards...

For me, Mardi Gras has several different meanings.

On one end it is all about the food (hence the King Cake I felt required to make).  From crawfish and rice dressing to gumbo and jambalaya, I never eat it more than I do during the Mardi Gras season.

Then there is the religion side of Mardi Gras which is more important (or at least equally as important) to me.  This opportunity I am given to prepare for Lent and reflect on what I want to get out of the upcoming season is something I really appreciate, although I realize that usually I do not take full advantage of this time.

Mardi Gras and Louisiana Culture are fully intertwined, and this is the first year since moving to Louisiana that I did not attend or participate in at least one Mardi Gras Parade.  I can do without the beads and the elaborately decorated floats, but I did miss walking around and talking to all of the old friends I see at the local parades.

Which brings me to the real reason I was bummed that I was in Japan and not Louisiana for Mardi Gras - the people.  Mardi Gras is a "get-out-of-jail-free" card for pretty much the whole state of LA.  Most schools are out at least through Ash Wednesday, if not the whole week, and many businesses have reduced hours.  It is like the state enters "party mode."  The mood is relaxed, people spend time talking and eating instead of stressing over work projects or school reports, and we all have the opportunity to enjoy each others company, and the (hopefully) nice weather!

I am grateful for the fact I have a busy life over here, but even though I was distracted, this holiday was the first day I truly missed home.  I made the best of my time of my Mardi Gras Day in Japan as documented in the two colorful photographs below.

Yes, I used my left-over Mardi Gras
colored sugar in my tea Tuesday Morning
Wearing Purple and Green...

I have no idea where I will be for Mardi Gras next year, and while I would like to bet that I will be in the Continental United States, I don't want to close the door on any opportunities that may present themselves in the future.  Wherever I am, I know I will look forward to this day for the rest of my life, even if I do not get to spend it in Louisiana every year.  Happy (belated) Mardi Gras to all of you!

***ATTENTION***Tsunami Warning for the Sasebo Region***Move to Higher Ground***


Week 7
This week was marked by the natural disasters in Northern Japan.  I am very grateful to be in a southern city where there was never any real threat of impact, but my heart goes out to the people who were much closer and who are still dealing with the fall out from the events on March 11th.  It is this week especially that I appreciate the fact that I am supporting the military and therefore am part of something “bigger” than myself.  Although life went on as normal (for the most part) during the weekend, ships were deployed and families did have to say goodbye to loved ones.  Although there is nothing I can do to directly support recovery in the affected areas, being in Sasebo as a member of the Morale, Welfare, and Recreation department, I am able to help make sure that the families on my base are healthy and happy so that, hopefully, the sailors at sea can focus on the mission at hand.  Making sure youth sports basketball games went on as scheduled may not seem like much, but maintaining normalcy in a time of deployment is a huge stress-reliever for the families impacted directly or indirectly by this tragedy.  I pray that the worst is over, and recovery is swift and complete.

Let me transition back to Monday, before any of this happened.  What I learned at work this week: Youth Sports are fun!  And yes, you do not need to remind me that I am not athletic.  Even with that consideration I still enjoyed youth sports.  I will always be appreciative of the fact that my parents supported my LIMITED athletic ability by giving me the chance to experience any sport I wanted.  I know the lessons I learned about winning and losing gave me a very healthy sense of competition and a desire to push myself to be the best I can be, and this week I enjoyed seeing that instilled in the children who came to our events. 

On the Hario Shuttle Bus,
headed to work.
My first day was a short day, as all I dealt with today was the paperwork side of youth sports.  I really do enjoy my administrative duties because they often give me the best insight into how the programs are REALLY run, and what is TRUELY required.  After getting to learn a bunch about NAYS, RecTrack, sport scheduling, and other programs used in youth sports specifically I had the opportunity to create the FAQs for Youth Sports Soccer (Yes, I am now something of an expert in youth soccer, but do not ask me to recite the rules of the game).  I also edited the Youth Sports Parent’s Manual that Taeko had compiled.  Again, this was not just about making sure all of the grammar was correct, but really getting to know what information is being presented to our parents.  I spent my night baking in my little apartment, making a yummy King Cake (see next post).

Ashes

On Tuesday I worked with Ms. Jackie (the Youth Sports Director) to create all of the records for the volunteer coaches and decide on thank-you gifts for them.    Wednesday, following the directors morning meeting, I helped with orientation for the new Youth Sports Baseball Coaches.  I also sat in on an interview to fill the Hario SAC Lead Position.  This was really informative for me, because it gave me a chance to see what the staff members are looking for in new employees as well as typical interview questions.  The rest of my night was spent helping with basketball game practices (and Mass).

I ended up spending all of Thursday in CPR training and did not have time to do uniform inventory.  The Hario T&C suggested that I get certified to teach CPR…maybe I’ll look into that one day.  My discussions with Taeko on the drive back to Main Base provided a lot of information about what a possible GS position furlough would entail.

Fridays are becoming one of my favorite days because for the last few weeks I have worked late on Fridays, which has freed me up for adventures during the day.  Today I went to a Velodrome (bike) race and explored a Pier with Sherri (fellow CYP staff member).  (I'll post photos with my weekend post)

I was actually talking to a friend back at home when the earthquake occurred, and she was the first one to mention it to me.  At that time I had no idea about how much destruction it would include.  That night I worked the Main Base basketball games, and was actually helping with those when a two-foot tsunami hit Sasebo.  Tsunami warnings were issued for us on the news, but nothing was said to the individuals on base due to how far above tide we already are.  I was surprised just how little most of the people on base really new about the disaster, and the lack of a 24-hour news system in English really impacts how I have been able to stay on top of this tragedy.  In order for me to best cope and adjust to any change or tragedy I seek information.  I have always been that way.  Not having all of the information readily available to me has been an adjustment for sure.

The Saturday Youth Sports basketball games at Hario went smoothly.  I had forgotten how much I really do love youth basketball, and I have decided that all of my (future) children will be given the opportunity (and encouragement) to try basketball.  I know it was hard for some of the families to be on the court today because they had just said goodbye to their loved one who was deployed to help with the disaster relief.  I appreciated being able to help support normalcy in the midst of uncertainty.  Looking forward to what the next few weeks hold following the current turmoil on base...

Thinking Day (and after) Adventures


As I mentioned in my previous post, Saturday was a long day for me.  The morning starting with Girl Scouts Thinking Day, which was a huge success.  There were over 100 military and Japanese Girl Scouts in attendance.  Not only were the girls able to earn their Thinking Day badges, but they also got to earn an intercultural badge.  It was great to see the girls from the various troops interacting (after they got over their shyness regarding the language barrier) and everyone seemed to have a great day.  And the food was pretty awesome.  I even had the opportunity to meet a Japanese Girl Scout leader who is in college studying in English.  Oh, and it turns out that another one of the leaders is a famous haiku writer…I’ll have to find a writing sample to share.  (Note: I'm posting pictures of the kiddos because I took them so that they could be published on FB and a few other outlets since the media did not come to the event, but let me just state that I do not want to see these pictures posted anywhere else, please and thank you.)  Here are some images from the event:

Welcome!
Our troop learned about the Congo,
so we wore traditional garments from that area.
Working together!
Japanese and American Girl Scouts
Trying to get to know each other!
PEACE!
Learning a dance...
A Japanese Girl Scout
Showing off their tattoos!
My outfit for the day...
A LARGE sampling of food
A Japanese University student who is also a Girl Scout leader!
Decorating cup-cakes!
A finished work of art!
Two of my adorable girl scouts 
Baby!!!

After Thinking Day I stopped at the local train station to take some photos of are area:

On the water...I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE water!
So glad I'm working for the Navy right now!
On the pedestrian bridge...
The Huis Ten Bosch Train Station
Inside the station

After that I headed back to Main Base and ran some errands before heading to work for the rest of the night.  Like I said, a LONG day.

Tree on base - why I love my daily walks to work.
Our Harbor
Under the water...
Japanese influence on base...
Happend to run into Diva Day at the Library
A flower outside of the CEC!

Sunday was a gross day, so we cancelled our Bio Park plans, and after brunch with Lauren, I ventured out on a fun shopping day with Alisha and Sherri!

my mini melon fanta!
The shopping "carts"
This whole country has some crazy
obsession with Minnie and Mickey Mouse
Shopping...YES!
A yummy Indian dinner.
Group Photo!  (Alisha, Me, & Sherri)

All in all it was a wonderful, exhausting weekend...just the way I like them.  Now on to week SEVEN and the second half of my experience here!

The Halfway Point in Sasebo (and a silent tear is shed by all)


Week Six
Wow, it is hard to believe that it is week six already.  As I type up this journal at the end of this week it marks the halfway point of my time in Japan. I cannot believe that I am at this point already!  The last six weeks have flown by.  I have now spent a good bit of time in the Child Development Center, with the School Age Care staff and students, and in the Pre-Teen and Teen Programs.  I have had the opportunity to go on field trips with children from each of these programs, and I feel like I have really gotten to know the staff and the ins-and-outs of each of these unique yet cohesive parts of CYP (Child and Youth Programs).  Every day I am learning something new, such as a different policy or a new way to implement a program, but I also feel as though I am able to offer suggestions that are heard and often applied.  I am looking forward to my plans for my last half of my time here, including next week with Youth Sports, a possible Girl Scouts camping trip, spending Spring Break with the teens, implementing some new trainings, finishing up marketing for the Easter Egg-stravaganza, and even (hopefully) making a AFN TV commercial with the teens – that activity is mostly out of my hands, but I will do my best to get it done!  It is going to be a very full few weeks, but I am ready to take it on!  

(UPDATE:  As I post this a few weeks late, after the tragedy in Northern Japan, most of this events have been put on hold until after I leave or cancelled entirely.  I will speak more about my experiences over the last week and a half in upcoming posts.)

Back to week six.  I am with the teens this week and we do not have any “customers” until 3pm, so I was able to brainstorm activities for the youth during spring and summer while finishing my journals.  Today was a pretty slow day, what with it being the last day of February and just trying to tie up lose ends from the month.  Tonight we hosted the February B-day Bash, even though there were only four teens present…but we all enjoyed cake from the Harbor View.

On Tuesday we spent the whole morning packing.  The teens and pre-teens had hosted a donation drive a few months back to get donations initially to help Hati, but because the staff were unable to find an organization willing to receive clothing and toys for that region we ended up sending the items to a program in Memphis, TN that Alisha, the Youth Lead, has worked with in the past (that’s her hometown).  Because the car was too full of boxes (11) for me to even fit I only heard secondhand about the drama that ensued with trying to get the funds out of the appropriate teen and pre-teen accounts.  Eventually they got it all straightened out, but again I am reminded of why handling money is such a headache.  Tuesday night I hung out with the teens and we played the Michael Jackson Experience and Dance Revolution on the Wii until I was sure that I pulled a newly discovered muscle in my arm.  Not only were we able to get all of the teens involved in the game, but many of the youth were commenting on the workout they were receiving – more Fit Factor points!  I now believe every center needs a Wii, or something along those lines.

Wednesday was busy as always.  Today’s managers’ meeting was a litter later than normal because our N9 was in town.  He is, forgive me if I butcher his title, the regional MWR director who is also responsible for all of the housing on base as well as pretty much all of the food service.  He attended our meeting to give us an update on the new, limited budget as well as some restructuring in the alignment of some of his programs.   Not only was the update enlightening, and helped me to understand more of how CYP falls into the grand scheme of things, but so was the discussion that followed.  Then came our Easter meeting as well as a budget meeting with the Youth Director that I really enjoyed (I know, me liking budgets, what a concept).  Today at the center we got into an interesting discussion with some of the teens today regarding the birth of Jesus, and both Ms. Alisha and I were unsure how much of this discussion we could be a part of as CYP employees.  I was glad to see one of the teens step up and lead that discussion…but really, what is the policy in regards to faith based discussions in the teen center?  I hate to shut down productive conversations just because it says somewhere we have to, but I also would hate to have someone’s parent be upset because we discussed something contrary to his or her faith.  The teenage years are when a religious identity is most often questioned and/or abandoned, so to just arbitrarily ignore this formative part of a teens life seems a little harsh to me.  If only I was back working in a Youth Ministry setting…geeze!

Wednesday night consisted of, you guessed it, Girl Scouts!  The meeting went pretty well, and I was able to help the girls make some swaps.  Today’s swaps consisted of hot gluing together little foam brownie bear and heart pieces…it reminded me of my OLOL Children’s Hospital 4-H Volunteer days, except this time the hot glue was green.  Yes, the Japanese hot glue the Girl Scout leader purchased was GREEN.  It should make a 4-H girl proud, but the green glue coming out from behind the wiggly eyes was creepy.

Thursday was Girl’s Day in Japan, which meant that SAC hosted a special event for all of the girls at the center.  They got to wear a kimono, watch how green tea is traditionally made, try their hand at making it themselves, sample some sweets, and they made origami.  The girls all had a blast (and the boys enjoyed being able to go into the preteen center during the event) and I loved seeing the local culture being brought into the center.  After the SAC Girl's Day event I helped the teens sort through ideas regarding a CYP commercial we hope to make - I now know I need more ideas to help them think outside of the box.

Learning how to make tea...
Being filmed for AFN
Sweet treats!
One of the youth teaching the teachers
how to make tea correctly
My treats!

Friday the Lead and I were only scheduled to work from 3pm – 8pm, so another staff member and myself took advantage of this opportunity and went on a “Lunch Hunting” trip with Eriko (I’m adopting her as my personal tour guide/interpreter).  The food was delicious, and we went shopping after.  As soon as I got to work we were off again, taking the Teens, Pre-Teens, and SAC kiddos to the photography contest and sculpture exhibit being hosted for them a the Harbor View CafĂ© on main base.  All of these children have such great talents, and I was impressed by several of their photographs and sculptures.  The photography contest winners get to go onto the regional (and hopefully national and international) Boys and Girls Club of America contest, so I wish them the best of luck.  Seeing the pride each and ever child had in the submission was awesome, and it was a learning experience in how to deal with a loss for others.  The rest of the night we just hung out with the teens in the center and finished putting “wallpaper” up on the walls.

Out to lunch...
The kimono I bought
A beautiful (and expensive) one
My artwork on display!
(broken and all)
4-H Clovers!!!  YES!
Alisha showing off her sculptures, and some of the teens' work
Our new "wallpaper"

Saturday was a VERY LONG day for me.  The morning starting with Girl Scouts Thinking Day, which was a huge success.  (See next post)  After thinking day I had work from 3pm – 8pm.  It was a very slow day, as we only had one teen there for about 30mins throughout the whole five hours.  Even with the limited numbers we still made the most of our time by decorating the whole center for March and St. Patrick’s Day!  Hopefully next week will include more time with the kids as I will be spending most of my time out at Hario working with Youth Sports.  Two new staff members with different perspectives to learn from…yes!